Today I am feeling a little bit overwhelmed. Yesterday was just one of those days. I wish everybody had the same priviledge that I have being married to my husband.

No - he is in no way perfect. None of us is perfect except for God himself - but if we just take the time to see the person God wants us to see - we will see perfection.

He has some issues with his health, he doesn't drink, he doesn't smoke. He has integrety and is honoust to the bone. You can trust him as the employee who will work, even if the boss isn't around. He will do whatever he can to help others and he will bend over backwards to spend some time with his family - even if he is tired and not feeling very well.

My husband has this thing you call faith !! He trust God and He will never question anything happening in our lives because God has a purpose for everything and He will carry us threw.

He helps me with the housework, he makes breakfast for the kids. Okay - enough !! He is my diamond !!

The thing is we would rather be together than apart. We would rather fight than to just go our seperate ways every day - we need each other to be the most we can be.

There is lots of marriages falling apart. The reason - every couple is different. The answer to the questions my friends ask me - I don't know. I don't know how to safe all the marriages out there. I don't know how to protect every-one from the pain they are feeling. I don't know how to comfort them and I don't know how to help them to believe that everything will turn out for the best.

All I know is this. God is the centre of my husbands universe. My husband would rather go to church than to a bar. He would rather stay home with his family than party with some friends. Does this make my husband different ?? Yes !! Is this the reason why I still love him with all my heart ?? I am sure.

You see the thing is. We aren't rich and we aren't poor but God has never stopped providing  in all our needs.

The only thing I can say is this - God is our Provider, He is our King, He is our Saviour and He is the only one who can help each  and every-one of us keep our marriages safe.

Please make Him the centre of your universe. He will help you to reconnect. He will guide your tongue. He will lead you to make the decisions He wants you to make. He will open your eyes and show you the things that are standing in the way of every couple out there's true happiness. He will carry you threw the storms.

Please !!! Please!!! Please !!! Don't try to change your partner into who you think he or she should be. Please accept each other as God accepts you and if there is any differences- meet each other halfway. Listen to each other, talk to each other and trust God.

You will soon find your diamond !!! Even if it isn't perfect !!! It is the diamond God wanted you to find !!!